Seduction or the art of attraction can seem like an unsettling mission for any newcomer. There are plenty of resources online and offline claiming to be the authority on seducing a potential partner but most of these don’t quite match the hype. Seduction comes naturally but a few pointers on how and when to act seductively can prove to be the difference.
1. Talk a Little Dirty
For most people, talking dirty is a proven way to break the ice and take things to the next level. Owing to the fact that there is no need for physical contact, talking dirty is widely accepted as a risk-free way to engage in some level of intimacy. According to a psychotherapist, people find it easier to communicate with each other over text or phone calls about something that they might not have the courage to say in person. Sextile helps to heat things up — with no actual foreplay needed. Spelling out your erotic desires is a powerful form of seduction and helps your partner to open up about their own sexual desires without fear of backlash or dismissive looks.
2. Create Awkward Situations
Awkward situations that heighten the sexual tension are the ultimate aphrodisiac for bringing your love interest under your spell of seduction. Creating awkward situations like unexpected bodily contact helps to break the social barrier and arouse sexual tension in him or her by forcing them into a position where they would have to acknowledge you. For this to work though, it has to all seem innocent and to have happened by accident so that it does
not seem weird and creepy to the prying eyes of bystanders. Men and women both love to know they can
get away with these little acts of intimacy in the name of seduction.
3. Smile
Ever heard the saying, “Smile to the world and the world will smile back at you”? Not only does a genuine smile go a long way in saying you’re friendly and approachable, it also helps to set you apart from the rest of the moving public. A warm smile can be generated after initial eye contact across a room, in the park or any other setting and it helps you retain the attention of your love interest regardless of the location of goings-on around you.
You don’t want to be creepy with your smiling so ensure it is genuine and communicated to someone who is receptive.
4. Calm the Mind
Another way to seduce someone you find attractive is developing a state of relaxation within one’s own being. Your relaxed state will influence how you interact with the physical world and how effective your seduction will be.
A scientific study found that as your mind relaxes, your electrical brainwave patterns begin to lower their frequency. These brainwaves then become more in sync with the natural frequency pulse of the planet and create a resonance between your mind and the outside world around you.
A calm person can better assess their environment and act accordingly instead of diving head first into a challenging situation.
5. Start With a Couple of Glances
A couple of brief glances in the direction of a potential partner will definitely do the trick in showing them your sincere interest and draw their attention to you. This approach to seduction helps to overcome the shyness of
meeting someone for the first time and builds up interest on both sides. You could also get a good idea from afar of whether the other party is really attracted to you or receptive to your charms. This patient style of seduction reduces the risk of rejection from a potential partner
and pushes up the chances of acceptance.
This patient style of seduction reduces the risk of rejection from a potential partner and pushes up the chances of acceptance.
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